Revised Question List for Rhinoplasty Doctors

It occurred to me that I always ask the same dull questions to every potential rhinoplasty surgeon, questions that I fished off the internet because my desire to get this done precludes my knowledge about the subject (i.e. I don't know what the heck I am supposed to be concerned about yet). But as my knowledge grows perhaps my questions will become more technical and relevant. Until then I thought of some humorous questions one might ask instead. I would like tO add the disclaimer that this joke was not inspired by any doctor I have met, rather by the numerous fears of those searching for a doctor that I have encountered off and on in forums.

1. How many patients have balled their eyes out in your office? Out of every 100 people that weep in your office how much of this weeping is post op and during the "remove the bandages" & "show me the mirror" visit? Of those patients how many return 6 months later with a fresh crop of tears?

2. As a young child what were your "I want to b xyz when I grow up" aspirations? Was any one of them "God"?

3. How often does something slip your mind? Do you at any time find yourself doing something and wondering how you got there? Driving for example, or performing facial surgery?

4. If I had Alladin's lamp and you could have three wishes what would they be? If none of the wishes could be for wealth or fame would you consider that lamp complete useless garbage?

5. Do you ever wake up at night and think, "Damn... I forgot to..." in reference to a surgery?

6. If I offered you a billion dollars and a magic flying carpet to perform a rhinoplasty surgery blindfolded on an innocent and unaware unconscious random patient...regardless of outcome... would you accept? 

7. When you are invited to go to a friend's clay sculpting studio do you find yourself sculpting noses besides the fact that everyone else is making ponies?

5. Do you ever wish that you could give someone a rhinoplasty for free because you could "do such great things" with that nose and face? But then realize you'd never win any bread that way.

6. Is the most rewarding aspect of your practice the happy patients or the happy bank account?

7. Did you just tell a lie?

8. Are you the type of person who is troubled when a picture hanging on the wall is slightly askew... do you get up to straighten it?

9. Are you an artist yourself? Do you see a good composition? Do you understand balance and proportion? Do you ever fantasize about sculpting Michelangelo's David and doing a better job?

10. Do you have a dog, a cat or a reptile? Did any of your pets ever perish of neglect or depression?

11. Have you ever turned a patient away and said you wouldn't operate? If Rudolph came in for a nose color change would you do it?

12. Has any patient ever said to you, "I wish I had never met you. I curse you and all your future generations!"?


** It is suggested one does not actually ask these questions for fear of being considered questionable oneself.

Sam P. Most M.D. Stanford C.A.: A Most Intriguing Option

Sam P. Most may not be the most famous plastic surgeon out there but he may be the most personable, amiable and considerate. After my primary rhinoplasty consult with Dr. Most today I couldn't find anything negative to say about his "bedside manner" or office staff. It is true that I have only consulted with three plastic surgeons so far, and so far Dr. Most is the "most" qualified, but he far outshone them in inspiring in me a sense of trust and belief. He was very frank about what could not be done: it would likely not be possible to fix the slight asymmetry in my nose, but the bulbous tip could be reduced and the bridge bump lessened to my specifications. He stressed that learning what my specifications are, communication, is very important to being satisfied with the result. He does computer imaging, but he is frank that slight deviations from the plan can result as is the nature of surgery and the healing process. I suppose it would be wise to say that one needs an understanding of a small range of what the result may look like and feel happy with to have realistic expectations. It seemed to me that while some doctors have a certain aesthetic that they aim for... as in Dr. Mang in Germany "the Mang Nose"... that Most may take more effort to make each nose individual. Some of those in his photobook, a bound edition of those photos he has permission to display, likely his best work, is available to peruse. It is not a thick book, rather the length of a childhood picture book, but covers a wide variety of noses and situations. I am assuming, and Dr. Most indicated this to be true for one patient, that many of his patients wished to keep elements of their ethnicity or heritage, as on some I found that there could have been more reduction for ideal aesthetics.

Dr. Most does the surgeries open and indicated that the scar may be a little visible but not an issue. He pointed out that on his photos it's not visible. He maintained that an open surgery will be more accurate, a mantra I have heard before. He said he performs about 200 rhinoplasty surgeries per year and of those 1-2% need revision. He was honest enough to state that it was likely if some of his patients were unhappy they wouldn't return to him and they would get the revision elsewhere. Yet even counting that unseen group the likely revision percentage was negligible. For revisions of his own work he said that generally only local anesthesia is needed and it seemed the procedure can be much simpler than the first ...probably for small aesthetic adjustments. 

Wait time for surgery may be 1-2 months, so it's wise to book ahead.

I appreciated that he was the one to take my photos in the photo room and then adjust those photos in front of me and that despite being behind schedule that day he took the time to address all my questions despite my having numerous moments when I found myself unsure of what questions to ask. He joked that I was likely referring to my list for Plastic Surgeons I had found online... which was spot on. He never caused me to feel rushed. He examined my nose carefully, something some doctors just don't do. (One reached across a table and squeezed my nose as if he expected it to honk.)

I ended up getting a botox treatment while with him, 20 units between the eyes. I liked that the office charged by the unit and not by the syringe which is something I have encountered elsewhere. If one doesn't want that much botox it's wiser to go this way. Having him inject it rather than an internist or nurse was also comforting as my last reaction to Botox had some complications.

One of the fellow Rhino seekers I have met on an online forum had surgery with Most recently and I am eager to hear how she is feeling and/or to speak to or meet a former patient.

So far Dr. Most: most intriguing! 

What is a beautiful nose anyway?

I don't know about the rest of you, but after looking at so many bad noses in the "before" shots and so many tampered with operated upon noses in the "after" shots I have started to wonder what in the world a nose is supposed to look like anyway. I sometimes sense that something may be asymmetrical, or too much nostril may be showing, but then I feel I have completely forgotten what is right and wrong about a nose's appearance. These photos of models and actresses (below the photos of me) are meant to be a reminder, a litmus test, of what a beautiful nose can be. In my efforts to collect these photos I have also realized that often a strong nose can be a beautiful thing as well, so maybe I want to try to change things, but not as drastically as I might have imagined. Some top models have stronger noses. I actually like having a strong, exotic appearance. Getting a little upturned "perfect" nose may not be the way I wish to go.

Myself

Myself

Myself, some editing on the photo. I smoothed out the shadows on the sides of my nose slightly.

Myself, I smoothed out some shadows on my nose.

Myself, untouched photo.

Myself, smoothed out the photos on the side of my nose. My nose looks really small here.

Myself, smoothed out some shadows.

Myself, smoothed out some shadows.

This is a beautiful nose, but more pointed. Notice how a natural nose really isn't that upturned.

 Which nose is right for me?

A stronger nose.

Another stronger nose

This nose is less strong but also beautiful.

A stronger nose.

Definitely a strong nose, but she is still beautiful. Notice how the bulbous tip does hang down a little. On operated noses the tendency is to raise the tip and expose more nostril.

Another stronger nose.

Strong nose.

Strong nose.

Strong nose.

Nice stronger nose.

I would also consider this a stronger nose.

Stronger Nose.

Stronger nose... her nose is very steep just like mine.

This nose isn't as strong but it's not small either.

I don't think I would want her nose, but it is an example of a woman with a long nose where the nose adds to her beauty.

You can see the nostrils but not because the tip doesn't hang down. It does.

 

 

A stronger nose.

Her nose may be a smaller version of mine?

This nose is beautiful.

Another strong type nose.

This was one of the few surgery photos where I liked the nose in the After very much. It doesn't appear too upturned.

Also a little stronger. This nose looks like the operated nose above.

I find her profile and nose to be beautiful. I don't know if this would work on me.

Uma Thurman's nose is a lot wider in the space between the eyes than mine. The width seems to stay the same from top to bottom, almost.

Note you can't really see the nostrils.

A beautiful nose.

You can see her nostrils from the head on shot, but notice the curve of the tip is still visible between them.

A unique nose.

Again, you can see the nostrils, but also the curve of the bulbous area between the nostrils.

Angelina has come to represent beauty and it's standard. But notice we can't see her nostrils at all. Also, the nose is very symmetrical and has width from top to bottom. Looks quite small in this photo.

We can see her nostrils but we can still see that her tip is dipping down

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A beautiful profile. But this look may look better on shorter, rounder faces.

Perfectly symmetrical.

Beautiful nose but really little and good on a smaller rounder face.

We can see her nostrils...

Some say I slightly resemble her.

She has a longer nose, like me.

I always found this woman to be stunning.

Sometimes there is a little bump at the tip.